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Division of Marital Assets in a “Grey” Divorce

Doreen Yaffa
Doreen YaffaNovember 17, 2021
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Division of Marital Assets in a “Grey” Divorce
When older couples split, their issues differ from those of younger couples as child support and custody aren’t usually involved. Dividing of the assets on the other hand, is a likely major issue. Florida is an equitable distribution state, meaning that marital property is to be divided in an equitable manner rather than a 50/50 split. Equitable doesn’t necessarily mean equal, it means fair. Because older divorcees have had longer to accumulate assets, they likely have more property, a larger savings, inheritances, and larger retirement funds or pensions than the younger generation. Life insurance is also a common issue when older couples divorce, needing one spouse to continue to carry it for the other. The factors that judges may consider when deciding what the division should be are:
  • The length of the couple’s marriage
  • Each spouses’ economic circumstances
  • Each spouse’s contributions to the marriage, including contributions as a homemaker or parent
  • Either spouses’ contribution to the career or educational opportunities of the other spouse
  • Either spouse’s wrongful conduct during the marriage
  • Liabilities incurred by either spouse
  • Either spouses’ intentional dissipation, waste, depletion, or destruction of marital assets after the filing of the petition for divorce
When it comes to Social Security, individuals over the age of 62 who divorce their spouse after being married 10 or more years can collect retirement benefits through their ex’s Social Security record. This can be done without reducing the ex’s benefits. Once you’ve been divorced for at least two years, you’ll be entitled to benefits through your former spouse even if they are eligible but not yet receiving benefits. Former spouses might also be entitled to receive Social Security survivor benefits after their ex passes away if you were married for at least ten years, you are at least 60 years old, and you are not entitled to retirement benefits equal or greater than that of your former spouse’s benefit. Most of this is unknown to the typical adult divorcing and usually not an issue that will arise when younger adults are divorcing. Deciding what is marital and non-marital property can be a common issue when the couple has been together for 20+ years. Marital property is defined as assets and debt, newly acquired during the marriage, either jointly or by one party, other than by a gift or inheritance to one spouse. Non-marital, or separate property, are the assets and debts owned prior to the marriage that remain unchanged. Commingled property may also become an issue. These are the assets and debts that were nonmarital, but which were traded in to acquire new property, repaired or enhanced during the marriage with marital funds, or nonmarital debts paid with marital. These are just some of the major issues older couples may face when dealing with equitable distribution while going through the divorce process.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does a divorce take in Florida?

In Florida, an uncontested divorce can be finalized in as little as 3–4 weeks, while a contested divorce may take 6 months to over a year depending on the complexity of the case and the court's schedule.

Do I need a lawyer to get divorced in Florida?

While Florida law does not require you to hire an attorney, having an experienced family law attorney significantly improves your chances of achieving a fair outcome, especially in complex cases involving assets, children, or spousal support.

How is property divided in a Florida divorce?

Florida follows the principle of equitable distribution, meaning marital assets and debts are divided fairly — though not always 50/50. Courts consider factors such as the length of the marriage, each spouse's financial contributions, and future earning capacity.

What is the first step in filing for divorce in Florida?

The first step is filing a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage with the circuit court in your county. You'll also need to serve your spouse with the petition and financial affidavits. Consulting an attorney before filing helps ensure you protect your rights from the start.

If you're facing a family law matter in South Florida, the experienced attorneys at Yaffa Family Law Group's Divorce practice are here to help. Our team understands Florida family law and can guide you through every step. View all our practice areas or contact us today for a confidential consultation.

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