Going through a divorce is difficult enough, but when there are children involved it feels that much more challenging. Your primary concern as a parent is what is going to happen to my children? Who will have custody? Who will make decisions on their behalf? What if circumstances regarding the children change after divorce?
Child Custody vs. Parental Responsibility
The first step is to breathe. The second step is to be legally informed and understand the law and your rights as a parent. Each case is different, however, the parental responsibility law in Florida creates a good guideline as to what you could expect. There is
no such thing as
child custody in Florida, it has been replaced with the term
parental responsibility. Florida Statute Section 61.13(3) provides that “when establishing or modifying parental responsibility and creating, developing, approving, or modifying a parenting plan . . . the
best interest of the child shall be the primary consideration.”
What is considered as to the best interests of the child?
Pursuant to Florida Statute 61.13 (3), the determination of the best interests of the child shall be made evaluating all factors that affect the welfare and interests of the minor child and circumstances of that family. Some of these factors include, but not limited to: The length of time the child has lived in a stable, satisfactory environment and the desirability of maintaining continuity; The moral fitness of the parents.; The mental and physical health of the parents; and refraining from disparaging comments about the other parent to the child; or any other factor that is relevant to the determination of a specific parenting plan.
Shared vs. Sole Parental Responsibility vs. Ultimate Decision Making
Most courts order
shared parental responsibility meaning both parents are responsible for making decisions on behalf of the child whether it be related to school, medical, travel, extracurricular activities, etc.
While shared parental responsibility affords both parents to have equal major decision making related to the children, Florida does allow another form of shared parental responsibility where one parent has ultimate decision making. This means that if the parties are not unable to agree, then the parent with the ultimate decision-making authority would be able to move forward with their decision despite the other parent’s objection. This type of parental responsibility is rare so to avoid one parent abusing their authority.
Further, in severe circumstances, the court may award
sole parental responsibility to the other parent. This is also very rare as the parent seeking sole parental responsibility must prove severe allegations. According to Florida Statute 61.046, sole parental responsibility is defined “court-ordered relationship in which only
one parent makes decisions regarding the minor child.” This is usually ordered when one parent is incapable of sharing parental responsibility due to their capacity, substance issues or domestic violence to name a few reasons. The court will always focus on the best interest of the child.
While determining the type of parental responsibility is one part of the process involving children, creating a visitation schedule better known as a Parenting plan. The parenting plan includes not only the type of parental responsibilities, but each parent’s time-sharing schedule with the children, including birthdays and holidays. It also includes details on travel with the children, extracurricular activities, the share of medical costs and child support payments. Each family’s parenting plan differs and reflects what works best for that particular family.
As the children grow older, circumstances may substantially change, and the courts understand that which is why they allow modification of parental responsibility or time-sharing. This may be overwhelming as there are statutes, and various procedures for family law matters which is important to seek the guidance of family law attorney to help you navigate through the process.
If you or someone you know is seeking advice on parental responsibility, you can speak with one of our family law attorneys at the Yaffa Family Law Group at 561-276-3880 or visit our website at
www.yaffafamilylawgroup.com to schedule your confidential complimentary consultation.
Frequently Asked Questions
How long does a divorce take in Florida?
In Florida, an uncontested divorce can be finalized in as little as 3–4 weeks, while a contested divorce may take 6 months to over a year depending on the complexity of the case and the court's schedule.
Do I need a lawyer to get divorced in Florida?
While Florida law does not require you to hire an attorney, having an experienced family law attorney significantly improves your chances of achieving a fair outcome, especially in complex cases involving assets, children, or spousal support.
How is property divided in a Florida divorce?
Florida follows the principle of equitable distribution, meaning marital assets and debts are divided fairly — though not always 50/50. Courts consider factors such as the length of the marriage, each spouse's financial contributions, and future earning capacity.
What is the first step in filing for divorce in Florida?
The first step is filing a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage with the circuit court in your county. You'll also need to serve your spouse with the petition and financial affidavits. Consulting an attorney before filing helps ensure you protect your rights from the start.
If you're facing a family law matter in South Florida, the experienced attorneys at Yaffa Family Law Group's Child Custody & Divorce practice are here to help. Our team understands Florida family law and can guide you through every step. View all our practice areas or contact us today for a confidential consultation.