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Post-divorce checklist

Doreen Yaffa
Doreen YaffaMarch 3, 2025
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Post-divorce checklist

Now that you're starting this amazing new chapter post divorce, we’ve got your back with a checklist to help you find your footing. Let's dive in and make sure you've got some things covered as you navigate life!

Sorting Out Finances

  1. Update Your Accounts: Time to close those joint bank accounts and credit cards and open new ones just for you. Make sure to update your information and beneficiaries on all financial accounts and insurance policies.
  2. Budget Check: Take a good look at your finances and create a budget that fits your new situation. If you need some help, don’t hesitate to reach out to a financial advisor.
  3. Alimony and Child Support: If you're dealing with alimony or child support, make sure you've got a system in place for payments, whether you're receiving or paying.

Legal and Paperwork

  • Legal Documents Update: Dust off those legal docs and update your will, living will, and power of attorney to reflect your new status. And if you changed your name during marriage and want to switch back, get that paperwork rolling (so long as it wasn’t done at your final judgment!)
  • Spread the Word: Let the important folks know about your divorce – your job, banks, insurers, and anyone else who needs to know about changes to your personal info or accounts.

Housing and Home Life

  • Decide on Your Digs: Figure out what you're doing about housing – are you staying put, selling up, or hunting for a new nest? Once you've decided, make sure your address is updated everywhere.
  • Make Your Space Yours: Whether you're sticking with your current place or moving to a new one, take some time to make it feel like home sweet home.

Taking Care of You

  • Lean on Your Squad: Your friends and fam are here for you, so don’t hesitate to reach out for emotional support. And if you need some extra help, therapy or a life coach is always a great option.
  • Self-Love Time: Make sure you're looking after yourself, inside and out. Treat yourself to things you love, practice self-care, and focus on your well-being.
  • Dream Big: Now's the perfect time to think about your goals and dreams for the future. Set some new goals for yourself and make a plan to make them happen.

Moving Forward Strong

Divorce might be tough, but you're tougher. By following this checklist and taking things one step at a time, you'll come out of this stronger than ever. Remember, you've got this! 🌟

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does a divorce take in Florida?

In Florida, an uncontested divorce can be finalized in as little as 3–4 weeks, while a contested divorce may take 6 months to over a year depending on the complexity of the case and the court's schedule.

Do I need a lawyer to get divorced in Florida?

While Florida law does not require you to hire an attorney, having an experienced family law attorney significantly improves your chances of achieving a fair outcome, especially in complex cases involving assets, children, or spousal support.

How is property divided in a Florida divorce?

Florida follows the principle of equitable distribution, meaning marital assets and debts are divided fairly — though not always 50/50. Courts consider factors such as the length of the marriage, each spouse's financial contributions, and future earning capacity.

What is the first step in filing for divorce in Florida?

The first step is filing a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage with the circuit court in your county. You'll also need to serve your spouse with the petition and financial affidavits. Consulting an attorney before filing helps ensure you protect your rights from the start.

If you're facing a family law matter in South Florida, the experienced attorneys at Yaffa Family Law Group's Divorce practice are here to help. Our team understands Florida family law and can guide you through every step. View all our practice areas or contact us today for a confidential consultation.

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Family law attorneys at Yaffa Family Law Group, specializing in divorce, custody, and complex family matters in South Florida.

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Table of Contents

  • Sorting Out Finances
  • Legal and Paperwork
  • Housing and Home Life
  • Taking Care of You
  • Frequently Asked Questions

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— Former Client, Boca Raton

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